I bring over 15 years of experience in Professional Counseling, a strong Christian Faith foundation, and my own story of a challenging marriage … I thought I had all the right tools to “fix” him and us.

However, despite my professional training and knowledge, I found myself feeling frustrated, disheartened, and stuck. My efforts not only failed to create positive change but, in some ways, seemed to make things worse.

I became discouraged and melancholy thinking, “If I could only change him or if he would just do things differently … do things my way … if he could just see my point of view … if he would just stop and listen to me” … sound familiar?

At a low point, desperate for a breakthrough, I came across some life-changing relationship material and new ways of thinking that became the turning point for both my sanity and my marriage.

With guidance, I recognized and stopped engaging in counterproductive behaviors—many of which I had been taught to rely on professionally and from influential women during my impressional youth … family, church, and a whole slew of self-help books.

Instead, I learned to take charge of my emotions, and as I applied these changes, I began to see meaningful improvements in my marriage and personal happiness.

I also rediscovered myself by reinvesting in my personal goals, self-care, and confidence … I started focusing on what truly brought me joy—pursuing my passions, returning to work, indulging in things I loved, and nurturing self-love.

Like many mothers, I had lost touch with this part of myself, but reclaiming it renewed my self-respect and brought optimism, empowerment, and fulfillment into my life.

As I felt more inspired and centered, I was able to see and appreciate my husband’s positive qualities again.

I let go of the need to control him, focused more on accepting him, which deepened our connection and transformed our relationship.

For the first time in years, I felt truly cherished, loved, and valued—like I was the only woman in the world for him, all over again.

This journey not only strengthened my marriage but also reinforced my belief in the power of personal growth and the transformative impact it can have on relationships.

We have been married almost 21 years now and I am so thankful and blessed to be married to the man that loved me more than I ever realized … I just had to get out of my own way so I could see it!

One final note!

Remember this: you are a beautiful, strong, and courageous woman!

Even if you don’t fully believe it yet, I do—and I’m here to remind you of your worth. You deserve to feel cherished, adored, and treated with respect and love.

If anything I’ve shared resonates with you, let’s connect. I’d love to hear your story—what’s working, what’s not, and how you envision the love and life you truly deserve.

It’s time to say no to neglect and stop settling for crumbs in your relationship. It’s time to start loving yourself more, embracing your value, and witnessing how this shift can transform your connection and bring Him closer … that’s what you want, right!

For some, there may be deeper questions: Is this relationship worth saving? Can it be repaired? Or is it time to recognize toxicity (abuse) and consider walking away? Whatever your situation, we can explore it together with clarity and compassion.

You don’t have to navigate this alone. I’m here to support you every step of the way, guiding you toward empowerment, self-love, and the life you deserve. I’d be honored to start this journey with you!

Let’s do this together … I can’t wait for you to get started and love deeply, connect authentically, and thrive!